Friends. :)

I just was thinking how wonderful it is to have friends who "spur one another on toward love and good deeds" (you all know who you are!! ;) To be able to share thoughts, struggles, joys, burdens, dreams and what God has been doing in our lives with one another is an awesome privilege! Friends who always point you back to Christ when your focus gets messed up, are a must. What a blessing and encouragement Godly friends have been in my life! I love you guys!!

Ponderings...

I'm learning more this week that if I want to completely give my life away to my Savior, I must be entirely empty of myself. Self keeps my eyes off my Prince. It distorts my focus and weakens my passion.

So often, I am just trying to make it through the week and in doing so, I lose my way and forget Who I am serving.

At the moment, I'm trying to refocus. Trying to remind myself why I'm here, and Who I owe everything to. I guess it really helps typing my thoughts out... Ya know, living for one's self is the most miserable existence possible! I truly believe so!!! I'm so thankful for a loving Shepherd Who straightens me out when I stray.

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Pastor Larry asked a question on Sunday...
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"How do you picture the 'normal' Christian life?"

Good question...

I quickly wrote down my response to that question and it is as follows:

Living in complete and radical abandonment to the Lord Jesus Christ; seeking to honor and glorify Him in all my actions, thoughts, attitudes, words, plans and dreams. Pouring out my life for others, the hurting, lonely, poor, hungry, and needy Christ-less people that this world is so full of - loving them with the love of my Savior. Frequently sharing the gospel with those God places in my path. Desiring that the beauty of Jesus be seen in me so that when others look at me their response would be not be "what an amazing girl!", but "what an awesome God she serves!" Cause it's all about Him, right?!
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I do not claim to live this way 100% of the time, perhaps not even 50%, but it is my desire to be more like this every day.
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I cannot serve both God and self. One must be dethroned.

“No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon." Matthew 6:24

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25 "And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown.

26 Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus I fight: not as one who beats the air.

27 But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified."

1 Corinthians 9:25-27

More of You and less of me, God

More of You and less of me, God

More of You and less of me, God

More of You overflowing!

I'd Rather Have Jesus

We sung this in church today...what an amazing song!

It has blessed me many-a-times. :)

Would you rather have Jesus?

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I'd Rather Have Jesus
I’d rather have Jesus than silver or gold;
I’d rather be His than have riches untold;
I’d rather have Jesus than houses or lands;
I’d rather be led by His nail-pierced hand
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Than to be the king of a vast domain,
Or be held in sin’s dread sway;
I’d rather have Jesus than anything
This world affords today.
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I’d rather have Jesus than men’s applause;
I’d rather be faithful to His dear cause;
I’d rather have Jesus than worldwide fame;
I’d rather be true to His holy name
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Than to be the king of a vast domain,

Or be held in sin’s dread sway;

I’d rather have Jesus than anything

This world affords today.
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He’s fairer than lilies of rarest bloom;
He’s sweeter than honey from out the comb;
He’s all that my hungering spirit needs;
I’d rather have Jesus and let Him lead

I miss her...

Prayin' for you, my dear cousin! I'm so excited about all the things God has been teaching you! All the things you have been learning, you prolly wouldn't have learned if you weren't right where God has you! I love you and realllllly miss you! (I'm so glad that you've been able to make frequent phone calls back here, tho ;)

Having you gone has just made me even more thankful for you.

Don't know what I would do without you, girl!

Erica's visit

Last weekend, Erica made a special trip to Omaha for a visit and Jess was able to join us for supper at Golden Corral. We brought a deck of cards with us and stayed for 4 hours!! :)
FUN times!!! :D

The love of the Lord...

But you, O Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God,

slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness (Psalm 86:15)

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I am so far from being "lovable", but He loves me still.

He never gives up on me, He is and always will be faithful.

Oh praise Him! What a joy it is to give my life away to HIM!

I love You, Lord!

The book review I promised you all. :)

So here's that book review I told you all was coming. :)

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If I had to pick one single book other than God's Word that has impacted me more than any other, it would be this one. If you are looking for something more then mediocrity, if you feel God's calling on your life to rise above "normal expectations" and live a life poured out for others instead of self, then this book is for you.

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So many young Christian women/girls are sitting around waiting for "Prince Charming" to come around, wasting precious single years that they may never get back. They are caught up with the idea that they "gotta get married" quick because they won't be truly be fulfilled until they are. You know, life doesn't really start until you're married, right? Wrong. God created each one of us to be completely satisfied and content in Him alone. "And until we are content with Him alone, we aren't truly ready for an earthly romance that will stand the test of time."

When Christ is not our all in all, we try to find lasting satisfaction and fulfilment in an earthly romance, but we never will. Even the most godly man cannot satisfy the deepest longings and desires of my heart. Only Christ can. So if I expect to find my completion and satisfaction in man and not in Jesus Christ, he will always disappoint me!

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So, what do we do? Am I saying marriage is wrong? NO! But I AM saying that getting married before you've become completely content in the Lord Jesus, can bring major disappointment and disillusionment.

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Surrendering everything to the Lord is so important! All your dreams, desires, wishes...

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"...God [wants] everything, even the "good" desires of [your] heart."

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Excerpt from the book:

"No matter how our selfish, fleshly side feels about it, laying everything on the altar before our King, and allowing Him to do with our lives whatever He sees fit, is where true Christianity begins.

Our desire for marriage must be no exception. Let us not fall for ear-tickling, lackadaisical messages that require less than absolute abandonment to the One who gave His very life for us. He took up His cross, and He asks us to do the same.

Never forget...on the other side of surrender, we will find the greatest joy!"

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So many girls spend their high school years pining away for "prince charming", so when the first one comes a'calling, they snatch up their chance to live their childhood dream of being a wife and mother. A beautiful dream that when not fulfilled in God's way and in God's timing can bring heartache. It is true, that for most girls, it is God's will for them to be married and have a family.
But not for all. And for many girls, God has called them to singleness, whether that would last a year or a lifetime.

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What are you doing with your single years? These years are a gift from God and for most of you they won't last for long.

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While you are single, you have special opportunities to accomplish great things for the kingdom of God that you may not be able to do when married.

1 Corinthians 7:34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband.

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Don't waste these years. There are so many needy, hurting people in this world.

What can YOU do to make a difference?

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This review has only touched "the tip of the iceberg". There is so much more that Leslie Ludy discusses in the book. I would really recommend reading it. You can borrow it from me if you like, or you can order it from Amazon for under $11.00 including shipping.

Warning: You won't walk away from this book the same person.

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I would love to hear feedback, especially on this post. Even if you disagree with any of the points I've made, I would love to hear response!

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